When to make it official after dating

06 Nov

I have been thinking a lot about dating and how long I should wait before I get into another relationship with someone.

I am currently dating someone but we are taking things slow.

Given the modern approach and all, we discover whether we are their girlfriends or not when they are introducing us to their friends. The best way to approach the situation is to be straight forward. Do you really like the guy or are you more 'lets see where it takes us'?

Because if that's how you feel, that's what the guy reacts to.

After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. You didn't even try the ol' "where this relationship going" tal K? And, when she tried to get back with me, I wasn't available anymore. I know another girl that waited and waited on a guy.

Really, it all depends how old you guys are, but even then some guys never learn how to close the deal. Even after she got to be his girlfriend, it was another 6 years before he talked about getting married. Women crack me up with rushing men and the need for titles. It's much more rewarding to chill out, sit back and let them come to you.

6 months is quite a lot of time to invest in someone who isn't even your bf/gf. 6 months seems to me an excessively long time to make something official.

If you’re happy that he’s the only guy you’re seeing, making the relationship official will allow you to continue to feel that way with none of the confusion that comes with undefined relationships. His friends think you’re together Have you ever had that moment where you’re out at a party and your hook-up’s best friend introduces you as his buddy’s girlfriend?

If his friends think you’re dating, it’s probably because he’s given them a reason to.

Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! I didn't move the relationship along fast enough for her. He went to prison for beating her up, and she spent 3 weeks in the hospital.

Some forums can only be seen by registered members. He sure did move the relationship along faster than I did, and then he almost killed her.