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02 Feb

A few days ago, as an American friend of mine was telling me all about her new boyfriend and how he had asked her out with flowers, I realized how different courtship and dating is for teens in France and the US. Americans go on formal dates; we keep things secret.

Americans only say “I love you” after months of dating.

I never thought that the cultural background of a dating prospect would make much of a difference when it came to relationships.

However, since living in New York, I’ve had the opportunity to meet many different people from various backgrounds and it’s become clear that there are definite cultural norms specific to European men versus American men (especially New Yorkers).

I’m not to judge that one is better than the other, and mind you, my observations are based on my own experiences as well as a group of women I’ve interviewed in the last two years.

The below is a list of some of the themes and commonalities observed.

*note: This only applies to the 'true French'; meaning those who were raised in France.

You can very well be born in America but have a more “European” mindset and vice versa. Perhaps this ‘score mentality’ is for bragging rights, perhaps it’s for validation so they can feel wanted and desired, or perhaps it’s a pure ego play.If you just met at a party, well, you kiss, and things evolve naturally.When they spend time alone together, the girl and the boy don’t go out for dinner, they just go for a walk or chill at home, which is really different from the formal dating process I see in American movies. We don’t ask people out, especially if we don’t know them well. Curious minds want to know what French guys think about all kinds of things, so today, my husband, Tom, is kicking off a new series called The Frenchman speaks: Ask Tom Tuesdays. I’m often asked what my husband thinks about American culture, food, the people and more.When I was visiting California this summer, a cashier from Brandy Melville asked me out on a date while I was buying a t-shirt.My first reaction was to laugh at him because it seemed so absurd that someone (let alone a cashier my age with whom I had only spoken three words) was asking me on a date.She didn't understand why one guy was very standoffish and another was incessently texting, and when they were together, non hesitant to show affection.After consulting with many French friends I finally found out some major cultural differences between American dating and French dating.So what are the differences between American and French women…to be honest, this is kind of a tough question for my first post!