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22 Dec

He already had two children already and even though in the first instance he said he wanted to have another with me, I knew that he had started to change his mind 3 months in as I could sense it and I ignored the signs as I didn't want to face the consequences of that outcome.

Instead, confront your situation head on (if you want kids with a divorced guy) especially if he has children already.

And with that awareness you make yourself more available for long-term love with the right guy.

Raising your awareness means being clear on the facts of your relationship.

Now, as a married woman myself, I can say with some degree of certainty that if my husband and I were to divorce, I wouldn’t want to rush right back into another serious relationship. All circumstance are different, so it’s hard to say if a person should date someone who is in the process of a divorce or not.

While most divorces can be sad, nasty and drawn out, others can be quick and painless.

Currently, I am using online dating to meet new prospects, though I choose not to date anyone who is going through divorce.

These questions might not be as important to you if you’re just dating recreationally and short term.

Here are some of the basics to help you get clearer on his situation…

And ultimately help you get clearer insight on whether or not this is a relationship where you want to go into deeper levels of commitment.

When I asked a mutual friend if Roslyn was dating, she informed me that although Roslyn had gone on a date or two here and there, she was just not ready. As a woman who has had the experience of dating two different men who were going through a divorce, I can unequivocally say that I’ll never date a married but separated man again.

One was simply not emotionally ready to move on, while the other informed me after five months of dating that he was going to go back and give it another shot with his wife–only for them to end up divorced anyway. So, until a man was totally free and wasn’t involved with any other women that could claim him as her husband, I stayed away.